Practice
Use the system for yourself
Reading is a start — the system works when you practice it. Use our assistants for hands-on, step-by-step help right now, with interactive in-browser tools on the way.
Solution Seeking Guide
Walks you through the system to navigate a specific conflict and find a great solution — resolving conflicts, understanding yourself, and planning productive communication, step by step.
Open the GuideSolution Seeking Mentor
Helps you with anything related to the system — explaining the framework, the 3-step protocol, the Wisdom Principles, and the Leadership Tools (or building your own).
Open the MentorInteractive tools
Practice each part of the system
Guided, in-browser tools so you can practice the system directly on this site. Everything stays private on your device.
Guided Introspection
Walk through the 7-step Introspection process with prompts, and produce a prep summary for your conversation.
Open the tool →Conversation Planner
A Mutual Understanding checklist and question bank to prepare for a difficult conversation.
Open the tool →Solution Builder
Check a drafted solution against the Actionable, Testable, Effective, and Time-bound criteria.
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